IT's A GIRL THING

katmaranda wrote:It's funny how accurate the article was! Those were totally the things boys/guys would never understand because "it's a girl thing" Though being a girl is more than that - we don't just focus on our physical appearance, but rather on what our inner physique should look like. We're keen on adventure, we like to take risks and fills up our minds with never ending stories from the books we have read and are definitely innate travelers!

Kudos to the author!

rabcruz3 wrote:

korobia03 wrote:Base on my experience., girls are very unpredictable. They always wanted to feel special at all cost, even there are times that boys are finding hard to adopt due to certain circumstances. They are too sensitive yet too forgiving. I have this girl who i love so much that i always hurt her feeling because of me being insensitive with girl's feelings. They always hate when they are being ignored and you prioritize something over her.

I thing i like about girls is that they have the purest heart. They can give you the love you need. They strength when you are weak. The voice when you can't speak and the joy when you are sad.

One thing more, I just want to extend that every girl should be treated with respect at all cost no matter what. They should always be treated as a princess and not a maid. If a girl dumps a guy because she thinks she can’t make him happiest, that’s love. But for me personally, love is created by two people. One might think that she can't give fully what a guy need but that's life. Nothing is perfect. When a girl holds a guys hand, she never wants to let it go. Same goes with guys., if you think you don't deserve a guy and he holds you tight, never let go also.

GIRLS are really unpredictable but if you are a guy who really LOVES his GIRL.. You should know every little things about her ..You should have know her Likes and Dislikes. And if you know that you are insensitive and you continue ignoring what your girl feels about... I'm sorry but I pity for her.  Boy you must change.  

10 Ways To Make Your Girl Feel Special
BY: James Michael Sama


1. Make her feel beautiful, every day.
Women are not often as confident as they come across. You need to reinforce her, no matter what. It doesn’t matter if she just got stung by a bee and her entire face is swollen like a basketball, she is still beautiful, and you damn well better act like it.

2. Be honest.
This is another big one. It may not seem like it, because honesty should be a quality that you express towards everyone in your daily life – but being honest with a woman you care about will show her that you respect her enough to be straight up with her.
Choose your words carefully, don’t express your honesty in a way that would hurt her feelings, but make sure she knows that she’ll get a straight answer when she comes to you for one, no matter what it’s about.

3. Kiss her. And not just on the lips.
Now’s the time to get your mind out of the gutter – When was the last time you gave your girl a kiss on the forehead? On the nose? On her hand?
Sometimes these actions speak even louder volumes than a kiss on the lips. They show her you want to be close to her, and you care about her. Plus, they’re more appropriate in public, so you can show her affection and not be arrested by the PDA police.

4. Don’t compare her to other women.
Instead of making your girl feel like the ‘best’ girl – make her feel like the only girl, because she is.

5. Don’t miss the little things.
Don’t let the little things fade. The opening of doors and pulling out of chairs, holding her hand no matter how long you’ve been together, hugging her from behind for no reason – all speak louder than words you can say.

6. Listen.
If a woman is complaining to you, remember that it means she trusts you enough to express her feelings to you. Don’t betray that trust.

7. Start, and end your day with her.
Even if you can’t see each other every day, by sending her a simple text when you wake up, and before you go to bed, she will know she’s the first and last person you think of every day. That is priceless.

8. Give her massages.
I never thought I’d have to put this one in here, yet, when girls talk about getting a massage from their boyfriend it’s like it’s some special occasion saved for birthdays and holidays.
It’s not that hard, guys. She’ll appreciate it, and return the favor…

9. Respect her wishes.
You may not always agree with everything your girlfriend says or does. But, mutual respect is the backbone of any healthy relationship. Speaking of backbone – respecting her wishes doesn’t mean sacrificing yours, but it does mean being willing to bend it a little bit for her. You don’t always need to get your way. Plus, you might learn something from her.

10. Remember the little details.
Whether it’s the date you met, the song that always makes her cry, that craving for french fries she gets once every 6 months, or that perfume she loves – paying attention to small details and doing something about it to surprise her, will show your woman that when she talks, you hear her.
It shows her that no matter how busy your life is, despite the pressure you get at work, or the millions of other things you need to worry about – she holds a special place in your heart, and your mind. A place uncluttered by the other noise in your day, or the hectic life you probably both live.
A place reserved just for her – and that, gentlemen, is special.

REFERENCE:
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rabcruz3 wrote:

sofiared wrote:Indeed, girls are like that.
It is weird seeing them being insecure even though they are beautiful. How they eat when they sad or happy. How they make things complicated because they can't even explain what they wanted to say. How unpredictable they are. But yes girls are the sweetest. Funny they can make others life beautiful and meaningful. They can see beautiful things in everything. The way girls can lift you up when you're down, can make you smile when you're sad. How they can love after being hurt. The way they can manage to smile or to be happy even if they were crashing inside. never underestimate girls they are wonderfully made. Boys should respect and take care of them. Really.
And the way we LOVE everything in our lives. Well, sad world without girls isn't it? GOD'S ONE OF THE BEST GIFT.
Beautful article it made me smile.

"HAPPY that this article made you smile!! Girls are really made for man.. i just wish that every Girl will find a good man that she deserves but "good man" is very elusive"

Sera wrote:Yes, girls are known to be unpredictable.

but most of the guys can use the so-called "reverse psychology" since most of the time girls do that.

When they say no, it means yes
if they say yes, it means no
but sometimes they don't do it so ..
yes means yes, no means no. or I don't really know because they are unpredictable that's why. lels

sanel wrote:i don't really into girl stuff but is it true that girl is more complicated than boys?

as i observe my father he is more complicated than my mom and he is the one who always bring gossip in our home  specially when we are just watching tv together. hahahaha

sanel wrote:i don't really into girl stuff but is it true that girl is more complicated than boys?

as i observe my father he is more complicated than my mom and he is the one who always bring gossip in our home  specially when we are just watching tv together. hahahaha

hahaha nice sharing of thoughts!!! well,regarding to father's trait that i think your father has feminine side maybe due to the environment that affects him while growing up!!

ayen05 wrote:FOOD LOVERS
Foods are truly a great stress reliever after a long period of lectures, mind blowing examinations and stressful activities. But there are girls who really love to eat no matter how much they spend as long as their craving is satisfied. Eating is a habit. It's a sort of bonding.

>>>>oh! its really true.. when i was in stress stage.. ireally  like to eat foods. i want to go out with friends to get together and eat some foods.. just to forget such cause of stresses.

foods for girls are the best remedy for stress!!

Xyn wrote:I'm smiling while reading your post

It's really funny because I thought that I'm boyish enough to be considered as a boy then by just reading your post, I suddenly thought that "woah! I'm a girl pala"

it is really amazing when you realized many things about yourself =)
good for you that you confirmed that you are really a girl!!!

Krystyl Says wrote:

rabcruz3 wrote:

sofiared wrote:Indeed, girls are like that.
It is weird seeing them being insecure even though they are beautiful. How they eat when they sad or happy. How they make things complicated because they can't even explain what they wanted to say. How unpredictable they are. But yes girls are the sweetest. Funny they can make others life beautiful and meaningful. They can see beautiful things in everything. The way girls can lift you up when you're down, can make you smile when you're sad. How they can love after being hurt. The way they can manage to smile or to be happy even if they were crashing inside. never underestimate girls they are wonderfully made. Boys should respect and take care of them. Really.
And the way we LOVE everything in our lives. Well, sad world without girls isn't it? GOD'S ONE OF THE BEST GIFT.
Beautful article it made me smile.

"HAPPY that this article made you smile!! Girls are really made for man.. i just wish that every Girl will find a good man that she deserves but "good man" is very elusive"

i like that "elusive" thing ...

finding a good man , we're just having an elusive dream! haha, #teamsawi